That’s How Winning is Done!!

The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows.  

 

It is a very mean and nasty place 

It will beat you to your knees 

 and keep you there permanently if you let it.  

You, me or nobody is going to hit as hard as life.  

But it ain’t about how hard you hit, it is about how hard you can get hit  

and keep moving forward, how much can you take and keep moving forward.  

That’s how winning is done!!

 

-Rocky, Rocky Balboa

 

 


Brandon D. Byrge
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February 1st is an immensely important date in the History of our great Country in that it marks the first day of the month, that has been dedicated to the Observance, Celebration, and Commemoration of “Black History Month”, also known as “African-American History Month”.

This month has always been a very reflective, appreciative, and blessed month in my life. As I have read about, learned of, and thought upon the individuals who were successful in bringing about one of the most enlightened changes our World has ever known by successfully changing evil perceptions and opening closed eyes to the fact that we are ALL created equal!! We are ALL Brothers and Sisters regardless of the color of our skin, our nationality, or our origin!!

It is inspiring to think about the immense light, the significant change, and the impacting influence a handful of individuals were able to bring into our World. The sacrifice, dedication, and persistence of these individuals has brought so much love, light, and understanding into a once darkened and deceived world.

I am so full of gratitude, admiration, and love for those individuals who have sacrificed to bring about such a Godly inspired change, for those who have enhanced the quality of our lives, for those individuals who have left their mark upon our World and left it a much better place for the rest of us!!

A Few of These Heroes

  • Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
  • Rosa Parks
  • Jackie Robinson
  • Satchel Paige
  • Willie Mays
  • Frederick Douglass
  • Harriet Tubman
  • Abraham Lincoln
  • Jesse Jackson
  • Malcolm X
  • Carter G. Woodson
  • Booker T. Washington
  • Bessie Coleman
  • Guy Bluford
  • W.E.B. Du Bois
  • Langston Hughes
  • Rev. Jesse L. Jackson Sr.
  • Jesse Owens
  • Madame C.J. Walker
  • Sojourner Truth
  • Ida Wells-Barnett

Thank you God for sending these individuals to our Earth and for giving them the strength, persistence, power, and determination to fulfill this Thy Will and for bringing Light and Truth to the rest of us!!

The Race…

Whenever I start to hang my head in front of failure’s face, my downward fall is broken by the memory of a race. A children’s race, young boys, young men; how I remember well, excitement sure, but also fear, it wasn’t hard to tell. They all lined up so full of hope, each thought to win that race or tie for first, or if not that, at least take second place. Their parents watched from off the side, each cheering for their son, and each boy hoped to show his folks that he would be the one.

The whistle blew and off they flew, like chariots of fire, to win, to be the hero there, was each young boy’s desire. One boy in particular, whose dad was in the crowd, was running in the lead and thought “My dad will be so proud.” But as he speeded down the field and crossed a shallow dip, the little boy who thought he’d win, lost his step and slipped. Trying hard to catch himself, his arms flew everyplace, and midst the laughter of the crowd he fell flat on his face. As he fell, his hope fell too; he couldn’t win it now. Humiliated, he just wished to disappear somehow.

But as he fell his dad stood up and showed his anxious face, which to the boy so clearly said, “Get up and win that race!” He quickly rose, no damage done, behind a bit that’s all, and ran with all his mind and might to make up for his fall. So anxious to restore himself, to catch up and to win, his mind went faster than his legs. He slipped and fell again. He wished that he had quit before with only one disgrace. “I’m hopeless as a runner now, I shouldn’t try to race.”

But through the laughing crowd he searched and found his father’s face with a steady look that said again, “Get up and win that race!” So he jumped up to try again, ten yards behind the last. “If I’m to gain those yards,” he thought, “I’ve got to run real fast!” Exceeding everything he had, he regained eight, then ten… but trying hard to catch the lead, he slipped and fell again. Defeat! He lay there silently. A tear dropped from his eye. “There’s no sense running anymore! Three strikes I’m out! Why try? I’ve lost, so what’s the use?” he thought. “I’ll live with my disgrace.” But then he thought about his dad, who soon he’d have to face.

“Get up,” an echo sounded low, “you haven’t lost at all, for all you have to do to win is rise each time you fall. Get up!” the echo urged him on, “Get up and take your place! You were not meant for failure here! Get up and win that race!” So, up he rose to run once more, refusing to forfeit, and he resolved that win or lose, at least he wouldn’t quit. So far behind the others now, the most he’d ever been, still he gave it all he had and ran like he could win. Three times he’d fallen stumbling, three times he rose again. Too far behind to hope to win, he still ran to the end.

They cheered another boy who crossed the line and won first place, head high and proud and happy — no falling, no disgrace. But, when the fallen youngster crossed the line, in last place, the crowd gave him a greater cheer for finishing the race. And even though he came in last with head bowed low, unproud, you would have thought he’d won the race, to listen to the crowd. And to his dad he sadly said, “I didn’t do so well.” “To me, you won,” his father said. “You rose each time you fell.”

And now when things seem dark and bleak and difficult to face, the memory of that little boy helps me in my own race. For all of life is like that race, with ups and downs and all. And all you have to do to win is rise each time you fall. And when depression and despair shout loudly in my face, another voice within me says…

“Get up and win that race!”

-Unknown

-Brandon D. Byrge

From Coal to Diamonds…

I was speaking with a friend today and she mentioned that even though she is going through tough trials and hard times right now in her life, that she knows that even though it seems hard and doesn’t feel great, that she is being refined and that she is growing. I think she nailed it!!

Think about it, the whole reason for trials in our lives is to refine us, to help us grow and progress, and to make us better!!

Did you know that a piece of coal only becomes a diamond after it is exposed to extreme temperatures, temperatures that are over 2,000 degrees F; and intense pressure, pressure which is about 50 times stronger than the pressure here on earth’s surface..? Isn’t that crazy!?

The coal is refined, beautified, and transformed into a beautiful diamond ONLY after it is exposed to so much pressure and heat!! If the coal was not exposed to these “trials” it would just remain a lump of coal and it would not undergo it’s transformation into that beautiful diamond!! Incredible!!

I know that this same principle applies to us!! Not that we should go out and put ourselves in hard situations so that we can be refined, but I have found that right in the middle of my darkest days and most extreme trials, I have been able to find comfort knowing that no matter how bad I felt, or how bad things got for me, that what I was experiencing was ALL for my own good and that I was growing and being transformed into something better!! I was going through the same process that coal had to pass through to be transformed into a beautiful diamond!! I found comfort in the fact that even though it didn’t feel good and things were very hard, that I was being refined and that I was growing!! I was being transformed from the lump of coal that I was!! It’s an incredible process!!

This knowledge brings me peace and hope, even in the most dire of situations and I share it with you in the hope that it will also help you to find peace, comfort, and hope in your lives, especially during your hardest trials and darkest days!!

Remember that ALL these things are for YOUR good, YOU are growing, YOU are being refined and YOU are transforming into a beautiful diamond as a direct result of your trials and hard times!! YOU will become that much better and that much stronger as you overcome your trials!!

And the best part of YOUR transformation is that as you overcome your trials, YOU will be able to comfort, assist, and guide your family, friends, and even strangers, in a way that you would have never been able to before your transformation took place!! And that transformation came as a direct result of your trials!! Think about that for a minute!!

I can’t believe I am going to write this but… I am grateful for my trials!! Trials, Thank you for working on this old lump of coal!!

God Bless YOU in your trials, refinement, and growth!!

-Brandon D. Byrge

4 Minute Mile..?!?!

In the year 1954…

“Everyone” involved in the World of Athletics agreed that it was not humanly possible to run a 4 minute  (to run 1 mile or 1,760 yards in under 4 minutes)Running Coaches, Olympic Trainers, Athletic Doctors, Radio Broadcasters, Sports Experts, and even the Athletes themselves knew this was an absolutely impossible feat and they accepted as a fact that human body was not capable of running that fast…

“Everyone” that is, except for a man by the name of “Roger Bannister “!! Mr. Bannister not only ‘thought‘ he could run a mile in less than 4 minutes, he was absolutely certain of it!!

On May 6, 1954, Roger Bannister shocked the entire World and proved possible that which just moments before was considered to be an (im)possible feat, by running a mile in “3 Minutes 59.4 Seconds “!!  Shortly after, several other athletes, who at one point had completely accepted the ”fact” that running a 4 minute mile was impossible were suddenly able to run a mile in under 4 minutes as well!! There was no barrier or limitation on running that fast, except for the one in their minds!!

I am inspired by Roger Bannister for his ability to ignore the ”im” on the word ”possible”, and for proving to me, and to the entire World that the only boundaries and limitations in life are the ones in our minds !! Roger taught us an incredible lesson on going out and accomplishing what we want in life, even if it is “im”possible!!

Thank you Mr. Bannister and May God Bless You for what you taught us!!

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.’ We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God.

 Your playing small does not serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.

We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone and as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same.

As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

-Marianne Williamson

 Brandon D. Byrge

Starfish Dancer..?

One day a man was walking alone, along the shore of the Ocean. As he looked down the beach, he saw a human figure moving like a dancer. He smiled to himself to think someone would dance like that in public. He got a little chuckle so he began to walk faster to catch up to the dancer.

As he got closer, he saw that it was a young man and the young man wasn’t dancing, but instead he was reaching down to the shore, picking up something and very gently throwing it into the ocean.

As he got closer he called out, “Good morning! What are you doing?”

The young man paused, looked up and replied, “Throwing starfish in the ocean.”

“I guess I should have asked, why are you throwing starfish in the ocean?”

“The sun is up, and the tide is going out. And if I don’t throw them in they’ll die.”

“But, young man, don’t you realize that there are miles and miles of beach, and starfish all along it. You can’t possibly make a difference!”

The young man listened politely. Then bent down, picked up another starfish and threw it into the sea, past the breaking waves and said…“It made a difference for that one.”

There is something very special in each and every one of us. We have all been gifted with the ability to make a difference. And if we can become aware of that gift, we gain through the strength of our visions the power to shape the future. We must each find our starfish. And if we throw our stars wisely and well, the world will be blessed.

~Author Unknown

Brandon D. Byrge

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